Our Story
A mother & two daughters with a shared love for gathering
We started The Joy in Gathering because we believe home and gatherings should be a place where people feel seen, celebrated, and completely themselves.
We're a Bay Area family at heart, raised with Sunday dinners at our grandparents' house and a lifetime of spontaneous family moments—holidays, game nights, backyard meals—where everyone was welcome.
Rooted in togetherness
Those gatherings shaped who we are: rooted in warmth, comfort, and the belief that beauty is found in the details and in togetherness.
Life has since taken us to different states but distance has only deepened our appreciation for time spent together. Whether it's setting a table, cooking a family recipe, or uncovering a vintage treasure that sparks joy, we've learned that gathering doesn't have to be grand to be meaningful.
Together, we hope to share the beauty, thoughtfulness, and spirit of family that has always been at the heart of our lives. The Joy in Gathering is our invitation to you: to embrace hosting that feels imaginative, welcoming, and joyfully lived-in.
The Team
Meet the family
Three perspectives, one shared passion for creating moments that matter.
Alicia
Event Planning & Design
With decades of event planning experience, Alicia has a gift for blending timeless elegance with fresh, modern touches. She believes every gathering should feel both intentional and inviting, and her strength lies in creating designs that are as refined as they are warm. Known for her eye for detail and appreciation for nuance, she curates spaces and collections that flow seamlessly, always attuned to the atmosphere and purpose behind each celebration. Drawing on her deep knowledge of etiquette, Alicia brings polish and sophistication to every project while keeping joy and connection at the heart of her work.
Monica
Curator & Buyer
Monica has a sharp eye for style and a talent for uncovering hidden gems, making her the team's go-to curator and primary buyer. She brings imagination and creativity to every find—whether scouring vintage markets, heirloom shops, or modern boutiques—always searching for pieces that tell a story. Her thoughtful approach ensures each item feels purposeful, adding character and cohesion to gatherings both big and small. With an endless ability to mix, match, and reimagine, Monica transforms inspiration into fresh design opportunities that make every setting feel distinctive and memorable.
Karolyn
Chief Editor & Strategy
With a background in psychology and life as a mother of four, Karolyn brings both insight and practicality to the way gatherings come together. She is attuned to the interpersonal dynamics that make people feel at ease and ensures that each project is as functional as it is beautiful. As chief editor, she provides unifying oversight—thoughtfully weaving together themes, language, and design elements. With care and precision, Karolyn shapes the voice and presentation of The Joy in Gathering, keeping the brand cohesive, intentional, and welcoming.
Our Approach
How we gather
Alicia's Philosophy
Hosting has always been second nature—creating spaces where people instantly feel at home. Every detail should feel both intentional and inviting.
Monica's Philosophy
A creative eye and love of sourcing vintage finds bring imagination to every table and corner. Every piece should tell a story.
Karolyn's Philosophy
Life with four kids inspires gatherings that are both functional and fun, filled with laughter and love. Beauty should be practical.
Together
We share the beauty, thoughtfulness, and spirit of family—an invitation to embrace hosting that feels imaginative, welcoming, and joyfully lived-in.